10-14-2004, 07:06 AM
jJ
Plz, somebody help me out here,
I want to buy some step1 video lectures(on dvd-s) from someone who claims to have it, we already agreed on the price tag of about $300. I have real concern that what if (in the worst case senario) I paid out the money but ending up not getting the stuff I paid for. I heard it happened like this to somebody else before. Is there a way, I mean a sure way, to prevent this kind thing to happen ?
Is is OK for me to ask the seller to accept half the payment before he sends me the stuff, and then receive the remaining 2nd half payment after I receive his shipment package ? Or is it fair for the seller to insist on my paying the full amount first, before the shipment occurs so I take the full risk in the deal, rather than sharing the risk on both parties ?
I mean, if both parties are really interested in the deal, there must be a fair way to address this issue/concern on the buyer's part of wanting to prevent being ripped off.
Thanks for any input on this
Plz, somebody help me out here,
I want to buy some step1 video lectures(on dvd-s) from someone who claims to have it, we already agreed on the price tag of about $300. I have real concern that what if (in the worst case senario) I paid out the money but ending up not getting the stuff I paid for. I heard it happened like this to somebody else before. Is there a way, I mean a sure way, to prevent this kind thing to happen ?
Is is OK for me to ask the seller to accept half the payment before he sends me the stuff, and then receive the remaining 2nd half payment after I receive his shipment package ? Or is it fair for the seller to insist on my paying the full amount first, before the shipment occurs so I take the full risk in the deal, rather than sharing the risk on both parties ?
I mean, if both parties are really interested in the deal, there must be a fair way to address this issue/concern on the buyer's part of wanting to prevent being ripped off.
Thanks for any input on this