What to say if offered pre-match? - tobesurgeon

[ArchivalUser]

I totally understand what your asking

just say no thanks, always be polite...than politely give them my information, because I would gladly accept it...lol

but on a serious note...if I were you and offered a spot, just take it

[ArchivalUser]

no one is getting what he is trying to ask here!!

say thank you very much but i want some time to consider this offer and i will get back to you as soon as possible.... and if i say no then will u consider me in the post match scramble or do i have to reapply next yr!!!!!

[ArchivalUser]

anxiety, are you just trying to be hard to get or seriously thinking of re-considering the offer and wait uncertainly for the "better" program?

[ArchivalUser]

all of the above... well it depends on the number ivs one gets... lets say if i have 1 iv and i get a prematch from Below Average program what would my response be... or say if i have 20 ivs and i get a prematch from a Below Average program what wud i say now... i know people not matching with 20 ivs and matching with 1 iv....at the end of the day it is a matter of personal choice... by the way tobesurgeon question is very relevant ' how to deal with prematch offer situation?'

[ArchivalUser]

here people r frustrated for ivs and u r worried about the prematch.in situation like now a days who want to reject the prematch ,when people in nineties r getting rejected

[ArchivalUser]

there is no below average and above average programs, the worst one is still the best , so i dont understand where is the confusion anyhow its good that some might turn down these offers for others to thrive on them

so even if u got 30 ivs, on ur second u got a prematch, thats it get save the worry and the money , once ur in the system life goes from there now worry about getting ready and transferring ur life to this new place, visa..etc

[ArchivalUser]

there is no below average and above average programs, the worst one is still the best , so i dont understand where is the confusion anyhow its good that some might turn down these offers for others to thrive on them

so even if u got 30 ivs, on ur second u got a prematch, thats it get save the worry and the money , once ur in the system life goes from there now worry about getting ready and transferring ur life to this new place, visa..etc

[ArchivalUser]

agreed...people get his or hers post....but since matching is getting so hard, when you say I will get back to you...they know ur not that interested...u think they will wait? they will move on to the next interested person