03-11-2009, 10:14 AM
I understand your situation. In my opinion don't go for abortion. First trimaster will be tough for you second trimaster you can study and do other thing like a regular person. I am telling this coz you said this will be your second abortion. To me I can build my carrier sometime( for you may be 1 year later) but I will love to have a baby as this is a gift of God. Look out your surrounding there are lots of couple trying to have a baby on their own but failed.
Once you get into residency you wont have time for having a baby. So this is the best time while you are preparing for your step you can give birth and raise a baby.
For your prep, after 1 year of prep if you feel you are not prepared I will suggest you to review and analysis the materials you have used so far and your strategy of studies. Take your time and set up a dead line to finish your exams. If possible join kaplan. If you dont know how to study, you can continue studying your whole life.
I dont know if i was harsh . But This is what I felt I just told you. Rest is up to you becoz this is your life you have to decide. Good luck from my bottom of heart.
Once you get into residency you wont have time for having a baby. So this is the best time while you are preparing for your step you can give birth and raise a baby.
For your prep, after 1 year of prep if you feel you are not prepared I will suggest you to review and analysis the materials you have used so far and your strategy of studies. Take your time and set up a dead line to finish your exams. If possible join kaplan. If you dont know how to study, you can continue studying your whole life.
I dont know if i was harsh . But This is what I felt I just told you. Rest is up to you becoz this is your life you have to decide. Good luck from my bottom of heart.