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hi inadaan iam exactly in same situatoion like you 2 kids and typical husband he says my everything should be ready before i ask im old graduate too i can understand your situation bc iam facing same things with out any help i have started prep since last 2 months 2-4 hrs some times i cant even study single page bc my younger kid is just 5 months and i have to make my schedule in that way when he sleeps than i get some time i usually study during night when kids go for sleep or early morning it works so dont think ur alone so many moms are with you we have to do it dont give up i hope a day will come when our kids proud on us all the best
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i am mom too.i have 1 kid 15 months old.she is so active.its too hard to study wd her.she used to stay awake whole night.i did graduate in 2009
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I'm a father of three now adults. Graduated in 1984. Have taken exam max number of time and have the last 1 chance to obtain my dream in 2013. No support from family or wife. My younger son will graduate US medical school this comming May. It is extremely hard to work and study and be diciplined, much less without the support of the person that is responsible for your well being and has the obligation to support your dreams. That being said. IT IS NOT IMPOSIBLE. I admire your HUNGER and determination. You will find the best way to succeed. Keep in mind that in doing so you will be an example to your children. You and your kids are in my prayers. KEEP AT IT. Use every moment you can. Use every minute to learn one thing more, one more fact. the previous minute. God Bless
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God bless your determination ag28510!!
Wish you all the luck.
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Hi...I feel your pain cos hv been in ur shoes.but let me tell u fact,u are the one attached to ur kids not them to u.when I started the preparation for step one my parent came for 2months to help me with my daughter...less than 6month old.my parent had to leave cos she had to go back to work and to her husband.it was very hard to continue on my own cos I couldn't just leave my baby to go to a day care.my husband was very supportive but let me tell u what he told me:if u were to be a single mum and u have to work to take care of ur kids what would u do? U have to get ur child to a day care.now my baby feels good now,I did my exam and I passed
So maybe u should start with a baby sitter first,leave ur kids with a baby sitter for 2to 3 hours...go to library ...try that for few weeks,then transition them to day care.u will be glad u did.u don't want ur kids to blame you in the future and you don't want to blame urself.
So be brave.and u will see everything will pay off eventually
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Hi,
I'm also a mom and working part-time have gone through almost one reading i have patho left.but still have so much more to do and feel lost and at times not motivated somehow u have to find a schedule and stick to it also have someone to read with to keep u moving and keep yourself positive by praying and doing your job of studying.keep at it.my e-mail address is dianadoc29 good luck.
