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hi,I have gone through an abusive relation ship ,going through divorce,got interviews this year but didnot match,doin some research work,I dont want to loose hope as i have passed my exan in 2nd attemps in step 1 and step 2.cs passed.I see alot of people struggling here in this forum,dont loose hope pals,lets cheerup and start you journey with new courage.
keep it up.we can all do it,if we try try try again 
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r_hope i need visa,my visa for CS got rejected .do research jobs sponsor visa??
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I sorry to hear your sad story, but you know what they say: "Whatever doesn't kills you, makes you stronger".
Don't you ever give up on your dreams.
use this bad experience in the match, as a feedback to you. One door closes, other door opens, ALWAYS!!!
So using "unmatched" as a feedback is a good think, cause it gives the chance to understand what you need to do now, in order to match in the future. If its USCE, strong letters, clearing step 3 and so on.
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I am in the same situation, abusive relationship, going through divorce, have two kids. passed exams with low scores and attempts, working in research. Sometimes hopeful, other time feel depressed and scared.
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same here gone thru a horrible divorce 2 kids passed 2 exams on first attempts and one to go......taking it in july....and just found out thru my attorney that my ex has filed for custody of the kids 'coz i am not raising them with good morals and values.....dunno whether to laugh or cry.....but i am hanging in there.....hoping to get residency in 2008.just be strong and remain focused on your priorities.
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It is very sad no body wants to go through all this esp when kids involve, tomorrow is my apperance in court, my ex also wants kids and all money. I hate all this stuff........
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Hey Guys,
Please indulge my curiosity, as foreign Med grads...where did you meet such abusive husbands/wives?
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I am greatly surprised that all women on this post are in this situation because my experience has been totally different. If a woman is not working and most of you ladies are not working.. you only have part time jobs or maybe your jobs do not pay as much as your husband's so how come you have to pay the money and the custody...
First of it will be a joint custody and secondly he needs to pay child support till the children grow up to be 18 and for a substatial number of years he has to pay you as well till you are able to support yourself. Now this maintanence support can vary from a year up to five years and till it's over you all will be in a residency and will be able to look after yourself and your children.
and Fam your ex can not take your children away only on the grounds of values and morals unless there is substantial evidence established in your case.... e.g abuse....and I am sure that is not the case since you are a educated woman with a civilized back ground...
We need to remember that after dissolution of any marriage the wife gets 50 % of everythig that the couple made during their marraige apart from the things that I have mentioned...correct me if I am wrong because I have been through a worst experience and the lady got everything the way she wanted..It surprises me that what happened to me as a male is happening to you all as women and that too in america....
Cheer up guys ...this too will pass and if anyone needs any help I am willing to help...I am sorry if I have offended any one..
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